Erin Coyle
Writer & Clarity Guide
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There's nothing wrong with you. You're exactly where you need to be.
Even if it feels raw.
What if you're just at that point in the story when the dark thicket begins to thin out? And the mysterious writing on the cave wall tells a story familiar to you.
Your story.
One client's experience:
I came in with something alive that had its own intelligence — but could have easily turned into months of navel-gazing or stuckness. Working with Erin felt like having a shepherdess. She was the banks of the river — giving structure without forcing anything. I never felt rushed, and the work that emerged felt completely like me.
Julia Corley
LCMHC, LMBT
Certified Hakomi Therapist & Trainer,
Somatic Experiencing Practitioner
Where are you right now?
I have a gnawing sense there's something I'm supposed to be doing but I can't see it yet.
I thought I knew who I was and then my life changed and I can't find my footing.
I know what I'm here to do, but I'm struggling to find language for it.
We can work with all of that.
Because whether you're navigating grief, a creative calling, a business transition, or a life that no longer fits, the question underneath is often the same:
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Where do I want to go next?
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Hi, I'm Erin
Embodied Clarity Guide & Writer
In a culture that values specialists, I'm a gatherer.
My work has always lived at the edges of neat categories.
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If a university ever offered a degree in "a bunch of weird shit," I'd be the first in line. Instead, I got a BA in Writing & Holistic Studies focusing on mythology, folklore, and the ways stories take root in the body. Which is close.
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I've spent thirty years exploring the places where body, story, spirit, and healing meet. Along the way I've studied pharmacology, psychology, plant medicine, ancestral lineage, somatics, mythology, and the ancient traditions of Ireland and Scotland where my people are from.
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I've learned that sometimes a gatherer is exactly what's needed.
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Thresholds like grief, illness, loss, and change rarely respond to a single approach. They require many doorways. Writing, movement, energy work, stillness, reflection, or sometimes just someone willing to sit beside you while you find your way.
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I have a lot of space in my heart for people in transition because I've lived it. More than once.
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Which is why people tend to find me when they're raw.
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Who this work is for:
You're not a beginner to this work.
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You've read everything from Francis Weller to Mary Oliver (and a few self-help books in between), sat in the circles, drew pictures and cried with strangers.
You've done some damn hard work on yourself.
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You have more interior life in the tip of your pinky than most people have in their entire being. Not everyone wants to talk about death at the dinner table. And that can feel a bit lonely sometimes.
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​Now something has stopped you in your tracks. Maybe it's:
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a career crossroads
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a creative project you can't stop thinking about
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a business that no longer reflects who you've become
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grief, illness, or loss
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Or maybe you're standing face to face with a longing you can't quite name. That gnawing feeling that something is asking — and you don't know how to answer.
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Whatever it is, the life you've built doesn't fit the person you're becoming.
And that's not a problem to solve. It's a threshold to cross.
Thresholds require someone who knows the landscape — the surprise turns, the dark corridors, the first glint of light on the cave wall calling you forward. Without that it's easy to feel like you've been walking in circles for miles.
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You've scattered the breadcrumbs. Done the frameworks. The five step plans. All the action steps. Even took a course in cartography of the soul.
And none of it is working.
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What you haven't had is someone who will actually walk with you — with a bag full of tools gathered from thirty years of treading the edges of story, body, earth, and soul — until you can read the writing on the wall yourself.
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That's what this work is.
I cried when I read what came through our work together. It felt like I finally sounded like myself again—only clearer.
And what we did is working. Since updating my website, I’m attracting the clients I truly want to work with.
Stacy Thomas
MA, LPC, SEP
Licensed Professional Counselor,
Somatic Experiencing Practitioner
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If you've been trying to think your way through all of this...
Welcome. You're in the right place.
Thinking harder or running faster won't lead you out of the forest.
Slowing down, listening, and trusting yourself will.
You want to contribute something meaningful while you're here on the earth. But more than that, you want to know you're spending your life on the right things.
You're tired of feeling pulled in five directions at once.
You want to feel more like yourself.
Integrated.
More alive.
More connected to what matters.
That's exactly the place this work begins.
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The Embodied Clarity Session
A 90-minute conversation for thoughtful people who've outgrown the life they've built.
Not another framework. Not an action plan. Not someone telling you what your life should look like.
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Just a space where your own knowing — the thing that's been trying to get your attention — finally gets to speak.
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In a single session we can:
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untangle what's actually asking for your attention
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figure out where your energy wants to go
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find language for work, ideas, or experiences that have been difficult to articulate
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hear what your body already knows that your mind keeps talking over
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identify one clear next step that feels true and sustainable
Some people come because they're at a crossroads: illness, change, grief.
Some come because they have a book, business, or idea trying to emerge.
Most discover they're standing at a threshold they couldn't fully see until we started talking.
Erin is a mid-life deep dive sage! She accompanied me through incredible grief, discovery, and joy.
Morgan Barlow LCSW, SEP, MPH
Licensed Clinical Social Worker,
Somatic Experiencing Practitioner
You'll know this session is for you when you find yourself asking:
Where is my energy actually going—and is that where I want it?
What's mine to carry – and what can I finally put down?
What does my next chapter actually want to look like?
How do I live a meaningful life without losing myself in the process?
This is the kind of clarity we make space for together
Erin doesn’t do surface-level conversations. From the moment you meet her, you’re talking about things that actually matter — the kind of 4-a.m., six-pack conversations that we had in broad daylight—exactly where they belong. She just lives there. It’s refreshing and grounding at the same time.
Amy Funderburk
Award Winning Visionary Artist,
Arts Educator, and Freelance Writer
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